MENtal Strength
Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships
A free article, every week, with the aim of helping men to do well.
These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships get want to have. New articles published Mondays at 9 am (Texas time). Check out the published articles below.
Just Us Guys: The Unique Potential of Therapy Between Men
Therapy between men offers a unique space for men to explore their experiences without judgment, navigate complex issues like vulnerability, and grow into more grounded, empathetic individuals in their relationships and lives.
Dealing with Anger, Part 3: Better Boundaries
Uncontrollable anger can mean you need better boundaries. Learn how aligning your boundaries with your core values can help you stop resentment from building up and prevent those explosive reactions. Take charge of your emotional well-being by setting boundaries that protect what matters most. #AngerManagement #HealthyBoundaries #EmotionalWellBeing
New video—My interview on the Men’s Talk Show
My interview with Daron and Wayne on the Men's talk show.
Discover What Your Anger is Telling You
Learn what your anger means. It's often a signal that one of your core values is being threatened. Learn how to use that insight to respond calmly and constructively, turning anger into an opportunity for growth and stronger relationships. Discover how to find peace of mind and stay true to your values, even in conflict.
Owning your Anger: A Path to Freedom, Not Suppression
Struggling to manage your anger? "Calming down" isn't the answer. In the first installment of our series on dealing well with anger, we explore conscious ownership—an approach that lets you allow the emotion without letting it control you. Learn how to experience anger peacefully, reclaim your focus, and notice how doing so changes your experience of anger.
4 Effective Tools for Dealing with ANGER
Popular advice like “just breathe” might calm you down, but it doesn’t solve the problem. In my new series, I’ll share four simple steps to help you deal with anger effectively—without suppressing it or losing control. Learn how to turn anger into a source of strength.
Weightlifting: A Tool to Confront Insecurities, Not Avoid Them
Many men struggle with insecurities despite feeling strong in the gym. This article deals with how weightlifting and hobbies can become tools to build emotional resilience. Learn how to confront, not avoid, your emotions and align your actions with your values for true strength.
How to say “No” —thinking differently about love and boundaries
This article reframes how think about boundaries so that they can be less frightening to set, and more effective. Many believe that the choice is either to be loving or have boundaries. This article presents a healthy alternative.
Men need to stop apologizing (for the most part)
Ever feel the urge to apologize just to keep the peace? Before you say 'I'm sorry,' ask yourself: Are you really in the wrong, or is something else at play? Discover when an apology is truly needed and when it's time to hold your ground.
Psychotherapy for Men: Accessibility and effectiveness
Feeling mistreated in your relationship? Learn how to stop "paying" for mistreatment by changing your response. Set boundaries, manage your emotions, and reinforce positive behaviors to create a healthier, more respectful dynamic. Discover practical steps to influence positive change in your relationship.