MENtal Strength
Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships
These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships they want to have.
Tne Secrets of Understanding Motivations
This article takes a close look at why people do what they do. By examining unconscious drives, the complexity of causation, and the social outcomes of behavior, it shows how to read between the lines of what people say and do. Whether it’s a compliment that masks rejection or a polite excuse with a hidden motive, understanding real motivation starts with looking beyond the obvious.
Sit with the emptiness before trying to fill it
How to grow and learn when you feel as if you are missing something.
For stronger relationships: less time, more purpose
Stronger relationships aren't about spending more time together—they're about spending it better. Discover why purposeful time matters more than passive time and how a balance of togetherness and independence can bring your connections to life.
Political affiliation is irrelevant to psychotherapy
Political beliefs shouldn't determine access to therapy. Yet, some therapists have drawn lines in the sand, refusing care based on ideology. How does this impact our profession's ethics? This article dives deep into the dangers of politicizing psychotherapy and offers a path forward to foster connection and growth across divides.
You don’t know her… and she doesn’t know you…
Think you know your loved ones inside and out? Think again. In this article explore how small, surprising moments can reveal untold stories and deepen your connections. Learn practical tips to spark curiosity, uncover new facets of those closest to you, and keep your relationships alive with discovery and meaning. It’s the perfect time to turn “predictable” back into “exciting.”
Just Us Guys: The Unique Potential of Therapy Between Men
Therapy between men offers a unique space for men to explore their experiences without judgment, navigate complex issues like vulnerability, and grow into more grounded, empathetic individuals in their relationships and lives.
Dealing with Anger, Part 3: Better Boundaries
Uncontrollable anger can mean you need better boundaries. Learn how aligning your boundaries with your core values can help you stop resentment from building up and prevent those explosive reactions. Take charge of your emotional well-being by setting boundaries that protect what matters most. #AngerManagement #HealthyBoundaries #EmotionalWellBeing
New video—My interview on the Men’s Talk Show
My interview with Daron and Wayne on the Men's talk show.
Discover What Your Anger is Telling You
Learn what your anger means. It's often a signal that one of your core values is being threatened. Learn how to use that insight to respond calmly and constructively, turning anger into an opportunity for growth and stronger relationships. Discover how to find peace of mind and stay true to your values, even in conflict.
Owning your Anger: A Path to Freedom, Not Suppression
Struggling to manage your anger? "Calming down" isn't the answer. In the first installment of our series on dealing well with anger, we explore conscious ownership—an approach that lets you allow the emotion without letting it control you. Learn how to experience anger peacefully, reclaim your focus, and notice how doing so changes your experience of anger.